"Replaceable"

Haiz…after readin clara’s letter, it triggered off sum thots again… have been askin myself not to tink abt it…but after readin her letter, everything jus came back… she’s rite… "Friendship is replaceable…" u mite be v.close to tt person but once u two are in diff sch, tings changed… & it hurts wen u tink of how close u 2 used to be & how u 2 used to end off wif ‘frens always’… It hurts wen u realise tt u r no longer close to e person u used to be close wif & wen there r no more common topics for those chats. It hurts wen u r no longer one of e first few ppl e one ur ‘used-to-be’ close fren turns to wen he/she encounters a problem… it’s reali heart-wrenching! Perhaps e only consolation u haf is tt at least e fren whom u care a lot for has found sum1 else who can share his/her troubles and doesn’t need u anymore…at least he/she is in good hands now rite? so it isnt tt bad… I tink e major problem in human beings is tt they tink too much… if they don tink too much, they wun be sufferin frm all e heartaches and stuffs… Almost everything in this world is replaceable but not e moments u spent wif e ppl u reali cherish… those are e memories and u cant replace em wif anything… it’s a FACT and u cant change a fact… Different friends are there for u at different phases of ur life… e ppl who r alwys there for u in e past mite nt be there for u anymore now… but wat can u do? U cant change a fact wat… tt’s how cruel life is… u can only take it as fate and make e best out of it… No matter how much u try, u muz see if e other party appreciates wat u’ve done… if he/she doesn’t appreciate wat u’ve done, don appreciate e efforts u put in to salvage or remain close frens, wateva u do will go down to drain… While u r feelin upset over e lost friendship, e other party mite be partyin… so is it worth it? Perhaps, u shld jus let go… let go wen it’s time to let go… there’s no use hangin on to tings which haf no conclusion… Just cherish e ppl who reali care for u now and e ppl ard u… no matter how tings mite work out in e future, at least u still hav e memories of e happy moments u spent wif each other… Thou memories mite be hurting, it beats havin no memories at all… at least u wun regret not doin sth which u shld haf done.

~ Let go when it’s time to let go…if not u’ll only be hurtin urself…~
~ Cherish e ppl ard u and cherish e memories shared by e two of u…~